First Snow Day

A green golf-cart-like vehicle is driving past the window of the downtown Starbucks. The rear gate is down, and a man in a hooded Carhartt is dangling his legs off the back, sweeping armfuls of icemelt from behind himself and down onto the sidewalk.

That explains the curious patterns the salt makes.

The precipitation is falling like a fine, light snow, but making ripples in the puddles like rain. All morning, it hasn’t been able to commit to one form or the other — rain or snow or something in between.

Many of the trees in the oversized black planters outside are still clinging to leaves in shades of burgundy, orange, and chartreuse. The fall colors seem out of place with their branches’ accompanying thin layer of snow.

My son is enjoying his first snow day of first grade. Not at home, though: he’s at Extended Time, at the same place where he attended summer day camp. Hopefully, that means he’ll get to see some friends he hasn’t seen since August or September. For once, he was excited to go to ET; last year, he hated ET because he would miss his normal school friends. That boy is so social.

The car seems to just know the way to that school, after three straight months of morning drives to summer camp, after a full school year of snow days and all-day programs during breaks. Funny how an old routine can be so comfortable and familiar, like putting on that pair of sneakers after a summer of sandals.

Snowflakes are falling in earnest now, as I write this. This morning, as we drove to ET, the precipitation fell on the windshield as a light rain, but with the percussive hit of sleet. Hence why nearly every school district in the area cancelled for the day.

No snow day for us grown-ups, though. Time to get back to work.

Shaking off my Parent Fail

So, remember how I said the other day how I feel better when I write and get stuff out?

Well, here I am, with my phone and my Bluetooth keyboard, taking my lunch break in the Starbucks next door to my work, because I hope that writing about my failings will make me feel like less of a schmuck.

Here, let me share the text I sent to my hubby this morning:

Parent fail this morning

Like my coworker (Hi, N!) said when I relayed this story to her this morning: Moms are human, too. It’s just that… I mean, yeah, it’s annoying when I have to tell my first grader to do something three times before he even acknowledges that I’ve spoken to him, but does it really merit raising my voice to him? Is that who I want him to think I am? He already hides under his sheets because he’s “scared” when I yell at him at bedtime for not listening.

Talk about feeling like a turd.  Continue reading

Fun Friday

[Taken August 24, 2018 at 5:34PM]

This summer, while Connor was attending day camp, he and I started a new tradition of Fun Fridays. It stemmed mainly from me not really wanting to cook dinner after picking him up from camp on a Friday, plus Connor wanting to stay up a little later on Friday nights.

Typically, we’ve been going to a restaurant together for dinner, then coming home and doing the normal bedtime routine, and finally coming back downstairs and watching Good Eats reruns on Amazon Prime in our jammies. Yesterday, though, since summer camp is over and school has begun, I didn’t have to pick him up from anywhere. So, as something special, I proposed that we order pizza and eat it on a picnic blanket in the back yard.

We polished off most of a medium stuffed crust (half mac and cheese, half bacon), then got our jammies on and watched Good Eats (the waffle episode and the sneak-parsnips-into-everything episode) while we ate dark chocolate dipped in peanut butter. After that, we brushed teeth and read a book and I tucked Connor in for the night. However, I also allowed him to read in bed… as many books as he wanted.

He fell asleep with the light on and a book under his arm.

Fun Friday success.