Early Birthday Weekend

It’s been a tradition since the early years of our courtship for Aaron and I to celebrate our respective birthdays on the weekend nearest to the date. Aaron’s worked nights/evenings for the last 15 years or so, which makes birthday dinner problematic. Since my birthday is on a Wednesday this year (hint, hint), we opted to celebrate this past Saturday.

Our plans initially revolved around going to see the Star Trek exhibit at the Detroit Science Center, but later expanded to include dinner in Ann Arbor. The short version of the day: The weather was positively BEAUTIFUL; the Star Trek exhibit was fairly detailed and involved, and it definitely catered to the Trekkie/Trekker; dinner was at the Chinese/Vietnamese restaurant on S. University, and was delicious; we continued to be Starbucks whores, even in another town; and we topped off the evening by sharing some mochi ice cream.

The long version of the day (with photos) is after the jump…
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Vacation ’09

After our ill-fated attempt at procreation back in ’07, Aaron and I found ourselves sitting in Red Lobster, facing a second chance at DINKness (dual income, no kids). Eventually, after some discussion, we decided to do something crazy, something we never thought we’d be able to swing: a week-long vacation to Japan.

It was the best vacation EVER.

It beat the crap out of our previous vacation to Amish Country, or the mix-n-match week of daytrips from the year before that. Despite the ass-long plane trip, our week in Tokyo was everything we’d hoped it would be. Culturally fascinating, with fantastic food and geeky shopping like you wouldn’t believe.

How to follow that up? How about the other vacation destination we never thought we’d be able to afford: Hawaii. Beautiful weather, outdoor activities like parasailing and snorkeling, bus tours, a Polynesian theme park, and Japanese food. Again, long-ass plane ride, but ultimately worth it.

So.

Now we’ve done the two trips we really, really wanted to take in our lifetimes. We have another year to take another potentially over-the-top trip… but neither of us are wowed solely by breathtaking landscapes or fantastic weather. There needs to be places to go, things to do, and preferably some sort of nearby walkable civilized / metropolitan area. Since Aaron had to put in for his vacations so early this year, we’re locked into traveling in either May or August.

Our two awesome vacations were awesome for completely different reasons. Hawaii was more of an outdoor adventure, while Tokyo was a geeky paradise for lovers of the Japanese culture. Maybe it’s just because we’re at the beginning of winter, but I’m recalling how much I really enjoyed being in the tropics. Warm breezes, perfect temps, sunshine, beaches… not that Tokyo in May was unpleasant by any means. So, while there are plenty of places I’d like to check out in Europe (especially England and Ireland), I think they’re going to be pushed to the back burner, in favor of some fun in the sun.

I think I’m just jonesing for a getaway, and that’s putting me in vacation-planning mode. I’m trying to balance price and flight length with potential vacation awesomeness, and am coming up with either the Caribbean or Mexico / Central America. I mean, Hong Kong would be great, but that’s a loooong trip for more money than it cost to go to Tokyo. Fiji might be neat, too, but is it 20 hours and $3000 worth of neat? I highly doubt it.

San Jose, Costa Rica seems kind of far from the beach, although it looks like there’s some awesome white water rafting. Belize is a possibility, as English is the official language, and there’s interesting things to do like cave tubing and snorkeling. Puerto Vallarta might be fun — whale watching, swimming with dolphins, hot air ballooning, and jungle boogie-ing. One of the islands of the Caribbean might even be do-able: Aruba, or Jamaica, or St. Lucia.

I’m not entirely opposed to doing the touristy thing; in fact, I’ve enjoyed most of the touristy things we’ve done. I just like to have the option to just walk out of my hotel and find out where the locals go, or have an adventure I hadn’t planned.

I guess I’m just feeling a little overwhelmed. We’ve done the top two trips, right out of the gate. Now the rest of the world is waiting.