Comfort Zone

I was just chilling between Connor’s karate class and my Krav class, sitting outside at the picnic tables while he played with the other kids.

Nothing really to say… except all the things I still have in my head that I haven’t blogged. I gave up on Garden Bloggers’ Bloom Day for the summer because I couldn’t bring myself to blog about anything else, knowing that there’s something else I “should” be posting. Hopefully that will free me up mentally to write about the stuff that really matters, like… well, like me and Connor going to visit my Mom for a long weekend, or like my BFF Amy coming to visit for the day.

Mr. Turner came outside and chatted everyone up while the teenaged black belts taught the little kids’ class inside. I opted not to tickety-tap a stream-of-consciousness blog entry in favor of actually being social.

The adult class was fun, but definitely got me out of my comfort zone — especially pairing up with Mr. Turner for a couple of drills and exercises. Having the teacher show you how to do a proper bar choke — on HIM — is a little weird. So is boxing the teacher, although that’s more frustrating than weird.

Funny how frustrating can also equal helpful. I’d miss blocking a jab, and he’d remind me of the drills we did earlier in class. I’d get mad at myself and start to let loose, and he’d remind me to only punch as hard as I want to be punched.

After class, I came to him with a technical question about blocking those jabs, and he spent a few minutes going over it with me until I had that “a-ha” moment. Then we chatted a while about how to get the most out of class: asking my training partners to step up their game if necessary, giving tips and help to others, making sure I get the most out of each interaction. Getting out of my comfort zone.

“That’s the most fun part,” I told him, “but also the scariest. That’s why I’m here, though.”

That earned me a huge grin and a big, sweaty hug from Mr. Turner.

I needed that.

Cleveland Zoo 2021

Day two of our Grammy visit started with the Cleveland Zoo, moved on to the Great Lakes Science Center, and finished up at Foundry Social (a restaurant/bar with games).

The zoo photography staff referred to Mom as my sister multiple times, which we found highly amusing.

Working Remote

While my son was attending The Inventive Artist camp this week at The Toledo Museum of Art, I spent my mornings working from Black Kite Coffee, just a five-minute drive away. I’d never done the working-from-a-coffee-shop thing, but plenty of people love it, so I figured I’d give it a go… instead of driving to the Art Museum and back twice daily.

A+ would do again! Black Kite has fantastic coffee, food, ambiance, and staff!

On Monday, I ordered up my usual Americano with Splenda and attempted to camp out at a hi-top table with backless stools. That worked out for about half an hour before my 45-year-old body started to protest. Once I finished my 16oz Americano, I moved to a normal table with chairs and ordered a cinnamon roll (lower left in photo).

I decided to order a different drink every day after that, focusing on Black Kite exclusives like the Ohio Honey Lavender (HIGHLY recommend), the Aztec Latte, the OWE (Old West End) Latte, and the Peachy cold brew. I also tried some foods from local purveyors of deliciousness, including the Earthen Dragon Bakery and Vegan Taste Toledo (whose Samoa Bar I had already tried at another local coffee shop and OMG YES vegan desserts can be awesome).

Super grateful for being able to support Black Kite Coffee this week.

P.S. The spider plant on their front counter had 6 or 7 babies hanging from it on Monday. By the time I left on Friday, there was only one remaining.

P.P.S. My Memaw always said that plant starts grow better if you pinch them off and take them without asking. Just sayin’.